I hope that you find someone who can appreciate all that you are. Your honesty, especially with yourself, deserves someone who can be as open and honest with you in return. I admire your strength that you can see the stereotypes and know that they are not you, even though it makes it harder for you to define yourself to others. I'm sure that your openness will encourage the right person to find you. If it turns off those who would want to categorise you then that's got to be a bonus. *g* Being out there and meeting people is also a good thing, and doing the things that you enjoy.
As julesjones said, you may find yourself moving between self-images, but it does sound like you've got a handle on that already and will understand and handle it. As always, we're here when you need support or company. *hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-16 02:44 pm (UTC)As