A partner, female, who is OK with her partner being gender conflicted.

I think I se what you mean; for me, I think of it as a partner who accepts you for who you are in all areas and doesn't feel the need to change you.

Acceptance of transgendered people, not just in the either/or sense that you have to be a man or a woman, or a trans-man or a trans-woman but in the sense that 'I might present myself as male right now but I might want to present myself as female another time, and that's OK.'

Amen to that.